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Do narcissists love their children?

14.06.2025 05:05

Do narcissists love their children?

I'll never say as she did, “I wish I never had kids.” That's just too cruel to understand.

So I don't understand how my mother looked at motherhood. I don't understand how she could look at a baby and it not be "hers" anymore. I was no more than an obligation, a millstone around her neck.

I, too, heard a lot of "I wish I never had children," and, "Your father loves you more than he loves me."

What is the cost of implementing synchronized traffic lights in a mid-sized city?

I was too young to understand how my mother was insanely jealous.

If an NPD mother does love her children, it's for what they bring to her, and I felt that I brought her nothing but pain and shame after I was finally born.

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When a dog smells another dog’s poo or wee, do they then remember that scent for when they smell it again, or even further know which dog they are smelling if they know the dog?

My mother once said, "You'll see this happen when you have a baby: when the baby is inside of you, it's all yours. Once you give birth, the baby isn't yours anymore. It's everybody else's."

With my first pregnancy, I was terrified this would happen. It never did. With my second son, I was terrified I wouldn't have enough love for both children. As my friend Rae explained, "love just multiplies." It sure did!